Mirror, Mirror

Posted on November 11, 2013 | 2 min read time

Still gotta work on that smile For 30 years, I’d look in the mirror many times every day, but I never saw a real person staring back at me. I’d see this thing that I’m pretty sure was supposed to be a person. I mean he looked liked a person and all that, there were eyes and a nose and a mouth and arms and legs, but I had no connection to him. [Read More]

How I chose the name Amelia

Posted on November 8, 2013 | 6 min read time

This post is by request, but it’s a question I’ve answered a lot and also something I often find myself sharing with trans women who are still searching for their name. And since at some point today, I will _legally_ become Amelia June, I thought today would be the perfect day for it! Most people are given a name at birth and that’s kind of the end of that story. [Read More]

The best thing about transition

Posted on November 4, 2013 | 4 min read time

Trigger warning for talking about suicide! When I finally accepted transitioning as a something I needed and wanted, I had a lot of ideas regarding how my life would change and what it would do for me. Many of them have either turned out to be reality or will at some point in the near future. However, some have kind of faded away as things I actually don’t want or care about anymore. [Read More]

Me 2.0 is live today! The lie is dead!

Posted on November 1, 2013 | 1 min read time

First day outfit! Rocking the Oiselle! Today’s the day! Me 2.0 is officially live!! I came in to work as Amelia for the first time ever and I’ll never living the lie again. From now on, I am one singular person with one identity. I spent last night handing out candy to trick-or-treaters in guy mode after work which I thought was sort of fitting. [Read More]

Today I come out at as trans at work

Posted on October 28, 2013 | 7 min read time

After 30 years on this planet, a year and a half of transition, seven months of hormones, and four months of working with HR, I can’t believe the day is here, but it’s finally time to come out at work. In just fifteen minutes, I’ll be heading into a meeting with my manager to tell him I’m trans and I am transitioning. As soon as I walk out of this meeting, I will be sending an email to my entire company telling them the same. [Read More]

How I came out to my wife's friends

Posted on October 27, 2013 | 3 min read time

Tomorrow, I will be coming out as transgender at work and I will be posting the letter I’m sending to my coworkers here, but a few days ago, my wife and I finally told the remainder of her friends about my transition. Unlike my friends, we’d been keeping it a secret from her friends. Anyway, I wanted to share the letter I sent to them. Hi everyone, there is something I am really excited about and wanted to share with you. [Read More]

Moving way out of your comfort zone

Posted on October 25, 2013 | 7 min read time

I’ve lived in New Jersey my whole life. BORING! Don’t get me wrong, I have an intense love for this state for a thousand different reasons, but there’s more to the world than just New Jersey. I didn’t exactly plan to be here forever, it just happened. After college, I thought a lot about moving to Chicago. I had been there once with a few friends and had one of the best times of my life. [Read More]